Archive for April, 2009

The library and an empty house!

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

I totally understand about this lifestyle bringing back memories for people, it does me as well. I am just thankful that I made the choice to live this dream again, just to see if it was everything I thought it would be. It has been and much more. I have been blessed a million times over.

 

Great gift from Hammer and his lovely wife (an online friend)! I will always cherish it as it says it all!  

Whew! What a LONG, HARD 5 days we have had. I don’t even know where to begin. Friday I got home and we finished the library floor completely. We moved the bookcases in the room and several other items. Everything was cleaned thoroughly and I got a few of the books on the shelf before it got too dark. We had to go get a few things from town and the old place.

 

Saturday we worked like two crazed over hyper jack russell terriers. We had the truck from work and that was it. No one was able to come over and help us so it was me and Chris…..the entire 4 days off work! We moved furniture and boxes until I was sure I could not lift another thing. Sunday we moved canned foods (remember that we keep nearly a year supply of foods at any given time and most of that is in glass jars). Those things are not light weight. Another thing we discovered was, you have to limit how many you put in a box, else you can’t lift it. We moved more boxes of canned foods than I can count and as we were unloading them, I begin to cringe every time Chris handed a box to me on the porch. The east side of the back porch has 100% shade all day. We stacked all of the canned food there, until we can get the root cellar done. I felt like my arms would surely fall off as the sky grew dark and the whippoorwill came out. Monday, we had no truck, just the car. We went over and boxed up the last remaining items from the house and got it all in the car. Several trips later, the house was cleaned out and I sat down for a good cry. Tuesday was more of the same, we moved items under the house and porches into the car and then to the farm. Again, it took several trips and one was just to haul all of the metal buckets and water containers. We got the clothesline down and the birdfeeders as well. We had to leave on of the clothesline poles because a bluebird has 4 babies in the birdhouse. Maybe they will be gone before May 20th.

 

This entire truck load is ONLY my sewing stuff. Amazing huh?

 

I got everything unpacked in the kitchen and where it all needs to be. We have an ant problem and I have never had a problem like that before. Shannon got me some kind of ant bait stuff they take back to the other ant folks and they all should die. It seemed to work in some areas, but not as well as I hoped for. Thank thee Gods it is not fire ants but I have never seen so many of those little creatures in a home. I kill them in the kitchen, clean everything with pine cleaner or bleach, scrub everything down and go back in 30 minutes to find more. So this will be a battle I am not looking forward to. Nothing pertaining to food is left out for sure! It was nice cooking breakfast in the kitchen yesterday morning, country ham, toast, home made jelly and even coffee for Chris. We enjoyed breakfast and got to work for the day.

 

I am glad everything is where I need it to be, makes cookin’ meals much faster!

 

The living room is done and looks great. I even managed to get a bunch of the family photos on the wall and it looks rather homey now. Chris began working on the little room beside the bathroom and just painting it white made a big difference. Then he cut out a place for a window in the bathroom. Mind you, we had never even really seen the bathroom as it was pitch black in there and the oil lamp did not light it up too well. So he cut out a place and put a temporary window in there. We were SHOCKED to actually SEE the bathroom. He even got the toilet to flush several times, which amazed Perrin.

 

Getting the family pics and lanterns up

 

All of the books, well except two boxes full, are out and organized in the library. The floor in there is just beautiful and the room ended up looking very nice. There is one wall that we will have to put paneling on it has dry wall up and a bad job of it to say the least. So we will cover it with some form of paneling later. The room is nice and I am glad we decided it would be the library. I have the old buffet in there with all of our stones and such on it. We collect rocks and like books, have hundreds. The bedroom is a mess. It ended up being the room where everything was stuck until we discovered its purpose. The bed is crammed in there some where as well, but we continue to sleep in the living room floor. We are on such a tight time line that we plan to leave it as it is and get the clothes organized when the rains come the end of this week. We are not going to worry about it then until we have the house down and everything moved. It is just not a priority. As long as I can find my clothes and know my sewing bins are safe, we are good.

 

The library floor is done!

 

SOME of the shelves are up and the books are in them now. Pics are on the camera at home, I will post more tomorrow.

 

More of the library floor

 

Yesterday I told Chris I needed a clothesline soon. So I picked a tree and he proceeded to cut it down. Well the top was straight up through some limbs on a big cedar tree. When he got it cut down, it would not budge. So he, I and Perrin decided we would just push it over, it was not very big around. Well again, it did not move. So Chris figured he would kick it off the stump and it would fall. So he proceeds to show his manly strength and kicked it good and hard. He jumped right off the stump to the ground, hard, and stayed straight up through the cedar. We had a good laugh and figured it could stay there and season a bit for firewood, we will attempt that battle at a later date. So we chose another one and cut it down. Perrin had a blast and Chris cut it into 11-12 foot sections. We tossed an end over our shoulders and headed up the hill with it. I was not expecting it to be so very heavy going up the rock steps, of course I was in the rear! I did not open my mouth to complain, but by golly I thought my shoulder was going to break into small pieces! Perrin and Chris started nailing the 2×6 to it, dug the holes and filled them in. It is perfect, the perfect height and distance apart. It is in a rare area near the house that actually gets some sun.

 

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Perrin fills in one hole while Chris digs another

 

Working together

 

While we were working on the clothesline, Don and Johnny showed up with some gold fish. There is a large deep hole where the culvert drains into the branch near the road. Chris put a few bricks up in the shallow area to keep them from getting downstream, but the water can get through OK. Now we have five pretty goldfish in the deep pool. Perrin was very excited about this, and just as excited as the snake Chris discovered. I spotted it again when Don got there and watched it for awhile. I was worried about copperheads and rattlesnakes and still do to be honest. But this snake was a harmless, well as harmless as snakes can be I suppose, common water snake. I am not in the process of training Perrin to watch for snakes and will do the same with the other grandkids.

 

 

Chris found a pogo stick when he was mowing Monday. We are finding a lot of things when he is mowing to be honest! Anyway, it was bent and useless, but Chris feels a need to keep everything until it has been proven 100% useless to him. Yesterday, Perrin kept inquiring about the pogo stick. Chris then discovered it was not totally useless and as the videos show, it offered a few laughs. That was a much needed break from the hard work.

 

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I checked on the vulture and she has lost one of her eggs. It was broken and the little baby inside did not live. However, she apparently feels it may come back to life as she continues to sit on it and take care of it. Poor thing. So she has one eggs left, it is nice and warm and moves around a little when she is not on it, so hopefully it will hatch soon and be fine. The whippoorwill is a funny little thing. Starts up at dark and stops at daylight. Most of that time, it hangs out near the house and drives Chris crazy all night. We have a lot of owls around as well. We are enjoying the sparrow on the back porch. She has about 4 babies I think and begins feeding them at daylight. If we are on the back porch, she will wait patiently on the clothesline until we are through and then go feed the brood.

 

Things we have discovered thus far, there is either not enough hours in the day or too much. When I figure it out, I will let you all know. We are officially known as “those waving neighbors”. I have to make every effort to throw things in the trash when Chris is not around, or else I discover those items in a box at a later date. Tired is when you feel like you cannot lift your arm and sitting down actually hurts. Of course, getting back up takes longer and you suddenly feel every muscle, tendon and bone in your body working together to get the job done, once you stand, it actually takes awhile for your brain to convey to your leg that it has to move in order to move forward. Having Chris makes everything worthwhile and I cannot think of anyone else I would want to walk this journey with. I am so very grateful for him and the hard work he does. Women can have way too much junk in their kitchen. I got rid of half of it and could still get rid of more! Freezers hold too much food! LOL I gave Shannon two huge boxes of meat and now the freezer is ALMOST empty. I am checking at work today to see who may need 20 bags of brussel sprouts and lots of squash and blackberries.

 

A typical day at this point in a life on a non electric farm: No need to set an alarm clock. The birds start singing at 6am and the whippoorwill stops at that time, you just naturally wake up between 530 and 6am. After venturing out to pee, you wash your hands with the water you hauled in the night before. I light the oil lamps in the kitchen and start breakfast. Usually coffee for Chris, eggs, country ham, toast. I put the jelly out on the table and get my medicine from the cabinet. The cats get fed and watered. Chris gets up and feeds the dogs and spends time with his beloved Cletus. We eat breakfast by the light of the oil lamps and I wash the dishes just as it starts getting light outside. Chris heads out to do some of his many tasks for the day. I wipe the kitchen down and then we work until midday and have lunch, which is usually a sandwich made from the leftover meat at breakfast. Back to work for several hours and then your stomach tells you when it is almost time for supper. I light the stove, cook supper, Chris carries in two buckets of water. We eat, the dishes get washed, we talk about when needs to be done that night or the next day. I lay out whatever needs to be laid out for breakfast the next day, get my skillets and pots ready. Chris puts leftovers in the Spring, like the jar of pickles we munch on with supper. The cats are given water and food, the dogs as well. We brush our teeth and wash up. We get the bed items out and make the bed in the living room floor. We laugh about things until we finally fall asleep, usually around 9-10pm.

 

This will change as time goes by, there will be laundry and chickens and wood cutting and more, but I will try to update it as we go along. We generally go through two buckets of water a day. One I use to wash hands and such with and to give the cats to drink. The other I use for cleaning and dishes. I have a ladle hanging near the buckets under the sink and dip the water as needed. We re going to have to do some work on the Spring a little. It is hard for me to get down to it to get a bucket of water or get food out of it. So we will figure something out with that soon. Again…it is not a big priority right now.

 

The rest of this week, we are going to just play it by ear, as it is scheduled to rain some, and not much we can do outside when it rains. During rain, we will work on the house, unpack boxes and such. IF no rain, I will drop Chris off at the old place before work, with Perrin, Shannon will come over in case there is an accident (which we are just hoping and praying there will not be one). Chris will begin taking the tin off the roof and the house down. When I get off work, we will load it onto Don’s wagon and get it to the farm, because we worry someone will steal the stuff if we leave it unattended. This weekend it will be strictly focusing on tearing the old house down and moving the stuff to the farm every day. We will put everything into the barn for now, other than the tin. At some point, we need to work on one of the stalls in the barn and turn it into a good chicken coop and then get the chickens moved over. I will be glad to be able to walk to the barn for eggs and not drive to the other place. So we will be busy and…..

 

We have all those plants to move still! As of today…we have 21 days left!

 

I took lots of pics over the past few days, but I forgot the camera at home today. I took some cell pics and had them up online, so I will post them today and will try to post some other pics tomorrow.

 

My little wonderful grandson, Perrin, taking a break and stealing a sip of unsweet tea

 

One of the folks who lives between here and there has buffalo and I love seeing them eating in the field.

April 24, 2009 and a library!

Friday, April 24th, 2009

Hey everyone, I have tried to catch up on things here and check in, but don’t have a lot of time to post right now, due to our 30 day time contraint. She deposited the money into the trust acount on the 20th, so we have until May 20th to get everything moved, including the house. I am taking off Monday and Tuesday again next week, so we can finish up moving our personal things this weekend and start taking the house down Monday.

As stated before, I think, the living room is done other than the baseboards. We will get them up much later. It is just not a priority right now. The library is painted and we got all of the hardwood floor taken up from the other place yesterday. We did not have a truck so we moved it all in the car. It was not an easy task, but we managed to get it done. Today, Chris and Shannon are working on the floor while I am at work. Tim is off today as well, so we have a truck available for the day. Last I heard, Chris and Tim were going to move the wood heater, pipes and the 30 or more boxes of books. The house has 3 rooms, the kitchen and the bathroom area which is two small rooms. We only need one bedroom, it is only Chris and I, the grandkids come over a lot, but they can sleep in the living room or with us. One thing we do have is literally hundreds, possibly over 1000 books. We are HUGE book fans and have them for every subject imaginable and I would say 95% are non fiction. We have lots of bookcases and we decided that, since that is a passion of ours, turn one room into a library/family room. We will get all of the bookcases in there and the books, plus an antique table we have with 4 chairs. That will be used as a puzzle table or for board games (which we do a lot), chess, studying, writing or crafts. We have a few other pieces of furniture that will go in that room, but its main focus will be the library. We eventually hope to turn at least 2 walls into ceiling to floor built in bookshelves. For that room, it has a fire place that has been blocked up with bricks. We plan to use the wood heater in there this coming winter, because it has been turned into that use. The chimney outside is half down and in bad shape. But eventually, we want to get the chimney re-built and open the fireplace back up for use.


How you move things without a truck!


Library almost done!

We managed to get the last cat over there yesterday evening. It was Pole Cat. They all seem to be adjusting well, Squirrel and Tree Cat are always exploring, Drop Dead Fred is about ready to pop with the little ones, so I will be bringing her into the house soon. We had 7 in the house the other night and almost went nuts, so they are all out now except for Cutie and Azrael. Cletus was happy to see Tree Cat, his best friend and SadieMae was thrilled to give Drop Dead Fred a good bath!

I got all of the lanterns over there as well. We grabbed some more lamp oil. HUGE, major mistake made yesterday that will NEVER happen again. Our life has been torn upside down for six months and the routine is not normal. I lit the lamp in the kitchen yesterday morning and Chris thought I put the lights out when we left and I thought he did. I came home yesterday evening and discovered the oil lamp in the kitchen had been burning ALL DAY! I am so thankful there was no tragedy and that we put all of the cats outside when I left for work. One of them could have gotten on the cabinet and knocked the lamp over and our new home would be history. It scared me to death and it took awhile to calm down when I realized out mistake. So now…we double check and make sure itnever happens again.

We have not quite perfected our water system yet either. We are used to the double barrels being right outside the backdoor and I just trot out there and fill whatever container I need to fill. We don’t have such a system hooked up yet, and have to venture down to the Spring for water. Well, if you wake upand need to wash your face, or the cats need water before bed, or you need to wash something suddenly, and you forgot to carry some water up, you end up making a short trek to the Spring and carrying the water back to the house. So now we are working on a system where we make sure there is a galvenised bucket of water in the kitchen with the ladle so we can use that as needed and another 5 gallon container full under the sink for use as well. When one goes empty, we can use the other if we need to, but we try to keep them both full. I discovered how much we were use to the water containers out the back door the other night when I needed a both before bed and got my bowl and rag out, only to discover there was no water, it was pouring rain and I did not want to make my way to the Spring after dark to get water. It is amazing how one can get so use to a certian thing, like always having easy access to water and when it gets messed up a little bit, you are just worthless until a system gets in place. LOL

We hope to get a roof on the cellar this weekend and get the food in there. That will take care of tones of boxes from the old place. That and the books (well and all of my sewing bins) takes up most of the space in the old house. We have the sink in place, but we have not put the drain and pipes in it yet to drain the water into the bucket, so we will do that this evening before dark. I have been washing everything in buckets and dish pans. We continue to sleep on the floor and to be honest, I am sleeping better and am more comfortable than in the bed we have. I suppose we should look into getting a new mattress, but right now certainly cannot afford it. I don’t mind the floor, actually like it.


Not that great cell pic of the living room


and why yes….that would be a chamber pot in the corner for night time
uh….use! LOL That little LED lantern thing on the table is quite an amazing invention. That sucker was given to Chris as a gift at Yule and it has the exact same batteries still in it! It has a radio on it, but Perrin broke the antenna. It makes too much noise for me but I think Chris might listen to it once in awhile while I am work and he is working on the house. The coffee table is one we made when we were bored one Saturday, out of some cedar pole ends that I stripped for the house and some cedar planks Jimmy had given to us.

When I think of everything that needs to be done, and then what all HAS to be done on a daily basis, plus him having a 4 year old all day and me working all day, and not having too many other people to help out other than Shannon, Tim and Amanda. It over whelms me. If we make it through this 30 days and can successfully get this house moved, I will have officially amazed myself and will then at least take a one day break! Maybe pack a picnic and explore our 15 acres for the day, There is about 13 acres I have yet to see.

I was heading to the farm yesterday with Pole Cat and the load of flooring and spotted this beautiful double rainbow on the way to the farm. You can barely see the second one, but it was so pretty.

This morning, I was on my way to work and when I pulled out of the driveway, I thought the fog rising was just perfect. So I snapped another pic.

I will be off work 4 days and am not sure if I will have the chance to update before Wednesday.

It is gonna be a beautiful weekend everyone, get out and enjoy! Play with your kids outside, take a walk with the person you love or find a secluded spot and spend some alone time relaxing!

Moving our life

Monday, April 20th, 2009

Do you know that Connecticut makes it mandatory that you have electricty? I cannot imagine living in a state that does not allow one to live without electricity. That is so sad and I think I would lose my mind. Luckily I grew up in southern Appalachia and well, poor was the norm and I guess they figure since there are still folks living like their great grandparents lived, why put the burden on them of getting electric and all that. 

 

The toilet does work, but the seal may need to be replaced on it. We will work on it when we get things a bit more settled there. We have not cleaned or painted that room, but plan to as soon as we get the chance. We will hook up our rain water system outside the window, that we will have to put in, and run it through the wall directly to the tub and toilet. We can have running water in there that way. I am not sure if or how often I will use it, we mostly are hooking it up for company. We are bringing the outhouse over, as Polk County allows you to have them. I prefer the outhouse, but will have the toilet for company and such.

 

I hate painted bricks, but the last folks painted them a hideous green. I tried and tried and could not get that paint off of those bricks. It made it look even worse! I had no choice but to paint over them. I cannot figure out why they did it to begin with, they were beautiful bricks!

 

The wallpaper strip on the fireplace in the living room is driving me crazy! I was going to leave the thing green, but the wallpaper needs to go. I tried getting it off and it was impossible. I may just paint the entire thing with primer and then pick a color and repaint it. I cannot afford a lot of new paint right now, so I am limited on colors to choose from and it has to match the curtains from the old place, I spent 200 bucks on the other curtains and don’t want to change to another color (because I cannot afford that for sure!) So I think maybe this week I will prime the fireplace area and paint it something!

 

We certainly had a very busy weekend. I got off work on Friday and we headed straight over to haul the 4 truckloads of hardwood flooring to the farm. It was stored in Hazel’s garage. She was on the porch when we pulled up so I briefly told her we were getting the flooring. She went into the house and Chris and I started loading. I was already tired from work. When we started loading the truck it seemed that something felt wrong. The more I looked at the situation, the more wrong it felt. Finally I asked Chris, “does it seem like there is a LOT less of this flooring that what we hauled in or is it just me?” He had noticed the same thing. When all was said and done, we have about one truckload of flooring in or at the old house. So we should have had about 3 in the garage. We hauled out ONE and all of the new stuff still in the boxes was gone. But whoever used it was nice enough to being the cut ends and scraps back and pile it on top of what they did not take! I was furious but nothing I can do about it. I just want OUT. Hazel cam outside and asked me where we were moving to. I told her way over past the county line. (I am trying to be civil until we can get all of our things out.) I was not however, going to tell her where we moved to. She sat down in the swing and said, “there sure was a good friendship ruined because of all this”. I was floored, I just looked at her and said, “uh yeah, it sure was” and she then said “I would have never thought it would happen”. I wanted to say “Just what did you think would happen when you went back on your word, continued to take our money and then tried to evict us? We are going to lavish you with love and gifts? I mean seriously!” Chris could not even speak a word to her, he is so hurt by all this. I sais “Yeah me either Hazel, I never would have thought for a second this would happen” and walked back into the garage. A little while later she came back out and said “Cyndi what made you change your mind about the flooring?” I was confused and told her so. She was under the impression I wrote in my last letter to her that I would leave her all of the wood flooring. We finally figured out that in my last letter I said we would take this this and this and leave this this and the wood flooring already installed in the house. She figured I was going to leave her all of it. Regardless, we got what was left and took it to the farm. We then had supper and grabbed a load of things from the old house as we headed home late.

 

Saturday morning we got up, had breakfast and went straight to the old house. Chris and I, all by our little selves, took 3 truckloads of stuff to the farm. I was exhausted! We even caught Hazel gone and was able to get the cedar slabs from the workshop that Jimmy gave to us. It is about 10 planks of cedar, some over a foot wide and 14 feet long. He wanted us to build a closet in the old house with it. I am going to get Don to assist me in building a nice cedar chest to sit at the foot of the bed and give to Lakota as a hope chest when she gets older. So we unloaded wood and got Mam-maw’s table, the Hoosier cabinet and many other heavier than I should have been lifting items. Tim, my son in law showed up a little after 2 and we got the grill, picnic table, couch, chair and lots of other things. Almost everything went into the bedroom of the farmhouse until we get the other rooms done. We needed to get the stuff out of the old house, because it was due to rain on Sunday and when it rains, there is no chance in getting a truck up the hill to the house. Tim went on to work at 530 and Chris and I continued to haul things. By 9pm we were exhausted and when the whippoorwill started outside the kitchen window, we headed on to bed.

 

 

A few of my favorite things

A few of my favorite things

 

 

I was up at 5am on Sunday and it was starting to rain. I went over to the old place while Chris slept. I got another box of items. I also managed to get Cutie and Azrael, the two house cats. They did well on the trip down and adjusted pretty well to the new home. I went back and fed chickens, got more things, made a trip into town for things we needed and then Chris started building pantry shelves while I started the floor in the living room. Shannon came over at about 230 and then Amanda. We had a tough time on the flooring around the fireplace because apparently my brain is tired and I could not comprehend how to measure. I was cutting pieces with a hand saw as well and that was taking me awhile. Then we discovered that we are going to have to change the type of flooring in the middle of the room because there was not enough left of the kind we were using (Thanks Hazel!). It is almost the exact same color though, so it should be OK. Before we realized it, it was 730pm. Chris and I headed to the old place and got 3 more cats, Flat Cat, Drop Dead Fred (who is very pregnant) and Butters. So YAY…..we only like 3 more, Tree Cat, Pole Cat and Squirrel. We got more boxes and I grabbed the 5 gallons of black walnuts. We got the babies to the house at dark, lit the lanterns and got things settled for the night. Chris grabbed a bucket of water from the Spring for us to take a bath, I got out clothes for work and we spent some time with the dogs.

 

The floor has begun!

The floor has begun!

Fireplace

Fireplace

  

 

 

 

We have started leaving a lantern on the porch that Chris’ mother got him for Yule. It has LED lights in it and runs off of a battery. When we plan to be gone until after dark, we cut it on. The rocks leading up to the house are hard to see at night and I am scared one of us will fall and nothing will get done with one of us injured.

 

We have the oil lamps in place in the kitchen, but have to carry lights through the rest of the house after dark. I don’t like this as there is always the risk of tripping and the dangers of dropping a lit oil lamp are too high when it is carried around after dark. So I plan to get all of the lamps in place the next few days so we can light there where they are and not have to worry about carrying them around. I am also going to do a little work on the clothesline that goes around the roof of the back porch, so I can get some laundry done this week and hang it on the line. It is piling up fast and will take forever to do it if I don’t make some attempt to catch up on it soon.

 

Today Chris is working on the rest of the flooring in the living room. Him and Shannon are going to start painting the library. We have not ran across any major problems with the house so far. We had to replace 2 joists that we were expecting to replace. All of the floors are slanted, one way or another, lol. The supports under the house are good and stable, but I guess after 100 years, settling takes place and things tend to slant. It is not big deal to us, just reminds me more of my childhood and such. They make little pieces of wood that fit nicely under cabinets and things to make them level (at least I assume they make them, Chris always shows up with them from somewhere as needed LOL). A piece of wood needs replaced on the side of the porch roof and the outside painted as soon as we are settled. We are trying to figure out the best way to do the roof on the root cellar. Any ideas are appreciated! We got a window screwed up over the one missing on the side of the house. It is far from a perfect fit, but since they sawed the 2×4 into to install an air conditioner, we are going to discuss what to do there. Whether widen the hole and replace it with one of the windows from the old place, go to the old woman on 68 and see if she has a window to match or what. For now, we screwed a large window up form the outside to prevent critters, especially human form, from getting in.

 

So the weekend was productive, we are adjusting to the new place, working like crazy and after 6 months of laziness, I am already tired! But things are coming along and still my favorite room in the house is the kitchen.

The kitchen and an ending..finally!

Wednesday, April 15th, 2009

What a long, hard 5 days. Preparing the farm for our new life by making it a workable non electric farm will be a challenge, but one we are going to enjoy tremendously.

Thursday we got things we needed and spent the night at the farm. We had no light at all, no lanterns, and arrived shortly before dark with blankets and pillows. We got a place fixed to sleep and hoped to stay warm. That night was wonderful. 

Friday we started preparing the kitchen for the big change. It will of course be totally non electric. We scraped, cleaned, measured and spent time on the porch relaxing. Friday night was even colder.

Saturday we moved the makeshift bed to the room that will be the library, because it has all the windows and one door and we would not be as cold in there. LOL We got the dogs from the old house and they spent the night cuddled up with us on the blankets. We moved a few little things from the old house and worked on the kitchen, painting the ceiling and walls, priming the areas that would be red and enjoying the grandkids.  When all the storms came through this weekend, we were in town for the worst part of it. We spent some time in my daughter’s basement when the tornado siren went off in town.  Shannon, my daughter, Tim, my son in law, Lakota and Amanda helped paint .
Sunday we painted and had a weenie and marshmallow roast with the family. The kids hunted eggs on the farm and that was so much fun. We built a fire and had a nice relaxing evening.  Chris replaced two joists under the kitchen floor and we had to replace two boards for the window frame.  The original counter was put in front of one of the windows and they cut two boards on the frame for the counter. Since we will be living “without electricity” (plug there), we need both windows and doors to be usable in the room for ventilation in the hot summer months. So we replaced the wood.

Monday we finished up the painting in the kitchen and started putting the floor down. Shannon helped agwith the floor and painting. Now big note:

*On this day, Monday April 13th, I got a call from work that a Constable was there to serve me with a summons to appear in court Tuesday morning. I had no clue what for, but headed to town to meet the guy and get the summons. Turns out, it was an eviction notice from Hazel. We were being evicted from the home we built and had to appear in court the next morning, less that 24 hours notice, to be evicted from the house. We met with our attorney on this day and it pretty much messed up the day for us. We got some things done, but not as much as we had wanted to.

Tuesday: COURT! Hazel showed up with her posse, some neighbors, friends and you guessed it, the “Preacher”. My attorney spoke with hers before court to try to get it settled before court and she had no desire to, she wanted us out and not give us a penny. Then discussions started with the attorneys and apparently hers ended up being pretty clueless about the entire situation. He had not read the letters that were sent between me and Hazel or anything. So he was given the letters and then put his head in his hand for a long time and then called Hazel out of the room. Negotiations started at that point for a settlement. He must have told her that her admission to the agreement in the letter the Preacher wrote, that she signed, pretty much done her in. We went back and forth for an hour and a half and finally reached an agreement. The judge was a bit confused when we went before him and I was to be evicted, but with a very odd agreement placed in judgment instead. So…I am happy!!!!!!! I am happy for many reasons. We ended up getting $7000.00 that she has to pay by check to her attorney, it will be placed in a trust until we are moved and then we get it. AND… we have 30 days to move, negotiable, if we need more time we can request it. AND…. We get to take every single building that we constructed on the farm and every plant with us. MEANING…..we get to take the HOUSE!!!!!! It is not as much money as we wanted originally, but in the end, after the next month of hard work, it will be in our favor. The only thing she wanted was a rifle that Jimmy had given to Chris long before he died.  Not sure why she wants it back, but she can have it. IT IS OVER!!!!!! Believe it or not it is finally over, no more guessing or worrying about what she will do or how it will end, it is over now and we are very, very happy with the settlement. AND….since she took us to court o try to get us evicted, she has to pay the court costs! It is also written in the judgment that this is the end of it and she cannot bring up anything in the future or try to sue us for anything every again. I owe it all to Barack Obama. BECAUSE, my first step in trying to get her to make a move was to put an Obama button on my mailbox because I knew she hated him so much. The mailbox is right beside her and she and her friends, who also hate him, had to look at it every day. The day after the button went up, someone tried to remove it and she filed for an eviction. 

And without further ado….the kitchen in my old farm house, my new “non electric” kitchen is ready for the furniture and wood cook stove! We got the floor done yesterday evening,  everything is painted and I am SO excited about it.

 

Old Kitchen

Old Kitchen

as it was…
 

New Kitchen

New Kitchen

as it is today!!!

Before

Before

After

After

 

Lakota painting the kitchen wall

Lakota painting the kitchen wall

Back of the fireplace in kitchen, Shannon helping paint

Back of the fireplace in kitchen, Shannon helping paint

 

The livingroom has been primed and ready for the first coat of paint and we will be getting the floor put down in there before the weekend! So things are moving along and life is good….I woke up this morning with one major thing less to worry about, fir the first time in 6 months I did not wake up worried about what will happen with the settlement. It feels good!

The dogs are adjusting well to the new home. They are minding pretty good and are now outside all of the time and not allowed in the house. We are getting the cats this weekend and will start moving all of the kitchen stuff this weekend. As for sleeping, as I age, my bones do not always cooperate. Sleeping on the hard floor was killing my hips. On Sunday, we went to the old house and got the memory foam off the top of our mattress and put it in the floor for me to sleep on. IT IS PERFECT! No more pain and I sleep better in the floor of that old home than I did in the bed at the other place. It is really nice! We are living on peanut butter and jelly sandwiches a lot and drinking water. I love sitting on the porch in my new rocker and watching the boys play in the branch. Putting the kitchen floor down was a hoot, because well…I do not feel so bad that our old house was not perfectly squared! LOL This old house is far from squared and the floors slant a bit, but we LOVE it and I honestly love my new kitchen! The trim is a little on the pinkish red as opposed to the red I really wanted but the red I realy wanted was 30 bucks a gallon, so I can deal with the off color a bit! LOL  We have a sparrow building a nest on the back porch near the kitchen. I anticipate finding a snake either in the house or under it, around it or something, but so far so good. Something I have noticed that makes me happier than anything is….Chris seems to be happy and not as stressed now and I am so grateful for that. I love his sense of humour and not much of it has been showing the past 6 months, it is good to see it coming out again and to know we are going to be just fine!

April 8, 2009

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

Yesterday we went down to the farm. I used the excuse that we had to go pick up one of Perrin’s favorite toys he forgot down there. Fact is, he did say he missed his new toys because he forgot them at the “Broken House”. Another fact is, if he had not forgotten them, I would have come up with some other reason to go down there for a little while. It gives me some peace, even if for only a few moments. As soon as we pulled up I checked out the Spring. PERFECT! It was clear, running with no problems and cold. I then headed to the barn to check on the vulture. I am 99% sure it is a black vulture. I thought it was a turkey vulture, but it has no red on the head, the head is grayish black. So I think we have a black vulture. She was on the eggs when I went in the barn. She had not touched the meat I left her, but I read they find their food by the scent of the decay and that meat has not started decaying yet. It was too cold yesterday and at night for it to start the decay process. It should warm up to the 70’s today and maybe she will find the snack tomorrow. She hissed and growled at me for a bit and then got use to me sitting there watching her, so she went about her business. When we got back to the house I had to run in and take a look at the kitchen, just to refresh my memory, so when I lay in bed at night dreaming of what it will look like, I will have a fresh image. We started to leave and saw Tim go by in the van. I pulled back in the driveway and he turned around and came back. He had brought the kids down to walk the back side of the property. We left them there with directions on where to go and it did my heart a thousand goods to drive away seeing my family walking on the farm enjoying themselves. I think I have made the best decision for everyone involved and I am thankful Chris and I can look ahead once more.

Monday, April 6th, 2009

Cyndi and her buddy SadieMae

 

Chris and his buddy Cletus

 

Cyndi

Cyndi while building the 1st home

Chris

Chris

The Kitchen and Spring (and a PET VULTURE!)

Monday, April 6th, 2009

We had a wonderful and productive weekend on the farm. Chris and I went down on Friday evening and took Perrin with us. He played in the branch and root cellar while we raked leaves and worked on the weed trimmer. Amanda showed up and took us to Chattanooga for supper at Genghis Grill. It was nice and a good evening. We got home VERY late. Saturday morning we headed to the farm as soon as our eyes were open and the chickens were fed. We did not stress ourselves that day, we just worked on things when we wanted to and sat on the porch and waved at neighbors and crocheted when we wanted to. Not over doing it and stressing was nice, but we managed to get a LOT of work done. We actually hauled some chairs and my rocker down there, some bird feeders and a few other little things to hang on the porch.

The first thing we did was trim the weeds around the branch and Spring. Chris worked on that while I cleaned the walkway in front of the house and rakes a mountain of leaves from the front of the house. The yard looked much better on that side after the weeds were trimmed and we discovered all of the tiger lilies, small apple trees, willows, yucca plants and tons more little surprises (snakes and lizards and such).

We had some visitors drop in and that was nice. My friend Joanna brought us bread, strawberries, cookies and some tulips. We had Devin for part of the day, my grandson, and we had a good time showing people around the farm, some friends from work dropped by as well. After everyone left, we started working on the kitchen. I think we pulled about 104 nails from the walls and window frames! I have never seen so many nails stuck in one place. Chris got the light fixture down that the birds had been nesting in. Then we ripped the counter out. Chris is like He Man and even though he is a little bitty thing, he is pretty darn strong. After getting that out we started on the water heater, which we full of water and we had no hose to drain it with. So we strained ourselves to the point of no return and got it out of the closet and on its side, rolled it to the door and then pushed it out onto the porch to drain. All of that and we only got two small cuts on our hands which are already healed with honey and duct tape. We scraped and swept and now the kitchen is ready for a good scrub. We have to put a piece of plywood down where the sink was and inside what will be the pantry. We are going to put another foundation pillar under the house where the wood cook stove will eventually be and then paint! The windows are OK in that room, other than one pane in a window is cracked a bit. We will replace it later down the road.


Before

After

 

Chris started cleaning the fireplace in the middle room while I made my way to the barn to visit a new friend, I will tell you about later in this post. I lost track of time and returned to help work 20 minutes later. We spent time relaxing on the porch and talked, laughing and making plans. I pulled weeds around some Iris’ in the yard and we went home late Saturday night.

Sunday we headed down there again when our eyes opened. I visited the barn friend and we mostly piddled with small things because we had to go to a birthday party for a grandchild at 11am. As soon as that was over we headed back to the farm. For some reason we found ourselves down at the Spring scooping moss out and chatting. Before long we had rakes, hoes, crowbars and hammers down there and we had an absolute blast cleaning that old Spring out. We managed to bust our some of the bricks. The Spring comes from two areas under the ground. One side had a brick wall with a 5 gallon bucket in the water where it was pumped to the house. Much later down the road we may put a hand pump on the Spring to the house but for now we plan to just build a small Spring house over that section and stick our milk, butter and such into a crate and lower it into the Spring. The other side will be used as a water supply for the house. I will have the Spring tested in a few weeks. We cleaned out watercress and sludge and you name it. We discovered mudpuppies and lizards and crawdads. The Spring is running clear now all the way to the branch. We put a warm soda in it and within 30 minutes it was cold. SO YAY! We have a fridge now! We still have a little bit more work to do on the Spring but we accomplished a lot. We laughed so much while we worked on that, splashing water on each other, taking frustrations out on the cemented brick with a hammer and crowbar, and waving at every single car that went by. (I am sure the neighbors are going to think we are some kind of happiness freaks! LOL One neighbor was walking her dog and is almost totally blind. She was walking down the road and stopped to talk to us for awhile. She was thrilled, yet shocked, that someone was moving into the house. 


Before

After

We spent the late evening finishing up the Spring and identifying some trees and plants we discovered. We walked back out to the barn and spent some more time in the house and on the porch before we headed home last night. We got home at dark and spent the night talking about what a great weekend we had.

 

We have lots of plans this week, if the cold and snow flurries don’t stop us from accomplishing some of our goals. I am writing Hazel a letter today to send via my attorney to see if we cannot get this thing settled as soon as possible so we can start moving things down there without worrying that she will find out we are moving. Hopefully the letter will strike some kind of guilty cell in her body and she will settle so we can move on. After this weekend, I am actually looking forward to it!

We discovered a vulture hanging out in the barn. She was in there every single time we went up there. She would fly out the side of the barn when we entered. I decided to make a trip up there myself and was very quite. I went in and she was on the ground in a stall. She spotted me and started hissing and growling at me. She did not fly away. I sat down about 8-10 feet from her and she just sat there and watched me, occasionally growling and hissing. I left about 20 minutes later. Chris we up there that evening and she flew out of the barn right away. It was then he discovered 2 eggs! We are going to have BABIES!! Little vulture babies! I am so excited! I will take pics and post them as they hatch.

4-2-09

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

This will be my final post in this category as we are making every attempt to move forward and put this experience behind us.

 

It has been a hard year for us, one with many changes and challenges. I never dreamed that something so wonderful could turn into such a horrible nightmare. At least this time, we have not touched that house until the paperwork was done, completed and final. I hope to share more new experiences with the farm with you. My heartfelt thanks goes to everyone who has shown us kindness through this. The only true regret in life is dreams never brought to life.Family :: 1st Slide slideshow by BushwhackerJohn – Photobucket

Hopefully we will be settling with Hazel soon and we can put this entire mess behind us. We have decided to move on to the new home on the old farm and remember Jimmy in the fondest ways. His picture will hang on the wall in our new living room, side by side with our family. We are planting a rose bush in his memory, as he loved rose bushes. We have discussed it as a family and Hazel’s name will never be mentioned in our new home. We will not taint it with the memory of what was done. We only hope this will be settled soon and we won’t have to look back.

I cannot express in words what something like this can do to you emotionally. I cannot even begin to tell you all how many tears Chris and I have cried in the home we built and the land the surrounds it. To walk away from something you constructed with your hands…with love….is so difficult. But we must do it and we will walk away with our head held high knowing we did nothing wrong but trust someone that we loved. I hope she can find peace in what she has done.

I looked through my pictures today and tried to find one that I could close this chapter of our life. I think I have. I want to thank everyone who has taken time from their lives to give us encouragement, a shoulder to cry on at time. Those who sent out prayers, good thoughts and positive energy our way. It has all been appreicated and has at times made things a bit easier…by just having folks to share the struggle with.

So we move on.

Don and Perrin

Don and Perrin

Don, Jimmy’s brother, taking Perrin for a walk the day after we found out Hazel was changing her mind. He was helping Chris measure out 5 acres so we could see if it would be enough to sustain us. He turned away from Hazel on this day as well and continues to be our dearest friend.

 

 

3-30-09

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

We have been terribly busy. We ran into Hazel at a restaurant Friday and she had no clue we were there. She was talking to an elderly couple and a lady that was with her and we could hear most of what she was saying. It hurt deeply because most of what we heard was not true and it just made me feel awful and I had a BAD weekend. She did see me before she left and almost passed out. She practically ran out the door. We are still waiting on the settlement and I hope to hear something this week. On Friday I will be making my final post in this thread. I am preparing the last post with a photo attached.

3-16-09

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

This weekend it rained…and rained and well…rained. Instead of fretting over the culverts getting washed out, the muddy driveway that I would probably get stuck in and a million other things, I decided to try to bring some normality back to my life for a brief while. We got Lakota Friday and she spent the weekend. We spent time with Amanda, watched some movie about a man and a magick toy shop (I was finishing a crochet project for my friend Don and was barely watching the movie.) I have no clue what the name of it was. At home, we crocheted and Chris and Lakota played cards. Lakota got a good lesson in herbalism when she was stung by a wasper and got juniper berries and a dirt dauber’s nest crushed up in spit and put on the sting. Yesterday I made some wonderful soup and after we ate we all laid down and took a mid afternoon nap. That is the first time I have done that in I cannot even remember how long. I think I have only done it twice in two years. IT was NICE. Chris and Lakota got up and I saw them venture out towards the pond. I went back to sleep for another hour or so. I crocheted some more when I got up, cleaned some on the house and even managed to pack up all of my inside altar items (rocks, animal parts, skins and such). I labeled the boxes as Chris packed up the photo albums and cookbooks. We got some of the enamel antique cookware packed as well. It was a lazy weekend and I did nothing spectacular. We went by the farm on the way to take Lakota home. It was nice, everything was just nice pulling into the driveway. I will be glad when the next two weeks pass and hope it is quickly! We took Lakota home and amazingly made it back up our driveway. The dogs slept outside last night and we had a very peaceful night. I am thankful for that. This morning we barely made it out to the road. The culverts are both washed out, there is about 4 inches of mud in most areas. It is just a mess. Sliding sideways across a rocky culvert over a flooded stream is not a relaxing moment in ones life. Hopefully it will not be much longer before we can drive out of there for the last time.

Hazel offered us $3500 to be gone in 30 days. We did not accept it. (Not sure if I posted that earlier or not, she did it last week) Her sister Gladys from GA died last week and they buried her here in TN, but not in the family cemetery which is odd, but I heard her and Jimmy did not get along and she was not thriled he was buried there so who knows. No one hung out at Hazel’s, spent the ngiht with her or time with her or anything, which again is odd but that only leaves her a few nephews by marriage, the rest of her family is gone.

Meanwhile… Here are a few pics.


The Farm House looking up the steps to the porch (and I LOVE those steps!)


Side view of house


Near the 1st Branch


Spring and Branch